Hello all, I absolutely love my job as an Activity Director. However, we have several residents who just don't get along with each other, roll their eyes when another person enters the room that they don't like, and spend their time complaining to me about each other. Of course I understand that there will always be folks that don't see eye to eye at every stage of life and in each situation. But it's getting to the point where it makes most activities stressful and not enjoyable for everyone because they can't put aside their differences and just ignore each other. What would you suggest? I am someone who avoids confrontation at all costs, so this has been giving me anxiety for the last few weeks.
I would like to thank you all for everything you've done to help people like us, giving us the new ideas and confidence to carry on doing what we do. As you must be aware it's not the easiest job in the world, especially trying to get a smile out of someone. I wish you all the possible good wishes for the future and do hope you will continue for many years to come.
Forum
I absolutely love my job as an Activity Director. However, we have several residents who just don't get along with each other, roll their eyes when another person enters the room that they don't like, and spend their time complaining to me about each other. Of course I understand that there will always be folks that don't see eye to eye at every stage of life and in each situation. But it's getting to the point where it makes most activities stressful and not enjoyable for everyone because they can't put aside their differences and just ignore each other. What would you suggest? I am someone who avoids confrontation at all costs, so this has been giving me anxiety for the last few weeks.