How to Respond to Challenging Behavior

How to Respond to Challenging Behavior

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Challenging behavior  is common in people living with dementia and is considered one of the most difficult issues facing staff in residential care and caregivers at home. It is important to try and understand why the person is behaving in a particular way and remember that it is the behavior that is challenging and not the person.

Challenging behavior is common in people living with dementia and is considered one of the most difficult issues facing staff in residential care and caregivers at home.

It is important to try and understand why the person is behaving in a particular way and remember that it is the behavior that is challenging and not the person.

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Annie 4th Nov 2015 Life-style co ordinator/PCA
Hello Effie and Amanda,
I also have a resident who spits constantly some days are worse than others but I was surprised to see that during her 80th birthday celebrations, her family came in and she didn't spit at all! I'm not sure if the cards will help, will certainly give it a go...also other residents find it hard being in the same room as her so she spends a lot of time in her room. I wish there was something I could do to change her environment.
Really appreciate any help with this.
Many thanks Annie
Jo 5th Mar 2015 activities coordinator
HI everyone, I am a activities coordinator in a hospital looking after the longterm elderly conditions patients. On average 3/4 of my patients have Alzheimers/dementia and the majority are looking for lost handbags, keys, purses, hankerchiefs, wallets. What I do is go to all the charity shops in my area and stock up on handbags, wallets, purses, and ask my friends if they have any spare keys. I now don't have any problems with them looking for things. I have even picked up a few cheap rings, watches and bracelets. It makes the patients so happy.
Amanda 17th Oct 2014 Diversional Therapist
Hi Effie, Would a writing board help this client to communicate or perhaps a coaster sized book of pictures for him to be able to point out what he is trying to convey such as a picture of a toilet or drinking cup. Just a thought.
Effie 8th Oct 2014 Community Services Facilitator
Hello, We have a 40 yrs old mainly non-verbal male client, intellectual impairment/dual diagnosis who is Spitting.
When going out he will spit a lot in the car and at the carer.
Spits on changeover of carers, mostly on his shirt but sometimes at carers and people.
It appears at times attention seeking behaviour or anxious/excited about something, his way of communicating..
What would be a way to handle this behaviour..?
any thoughts would be appreciated.
Amanda 2nd Apr 2014 Diversional Therapist
Hi, I have read the above articles and am just wondering if it might help finding out a particular item this lady client keeps stating is missing, e.g. a watch and getting hold of a cheap one which might re-assure her or is this going to open up a can of worms?
Solange 7th Nov 2013 Diversional Therapist
Hi Heather,

It is common for people living with dementia to be suspicious of neighbours and staff. Sometimes they come up with unreasonable accusations. You may try validation therapy; ask questions about the item that is missing; how she used it, for what purpose, if the item reminds her of someone and so on. If this fails, use some strategic distraction; something that worked in the past or invite her for a game or visit someone she likes. Unfortunately, sometimes nothing works and they stay miserably for a while. You must remember that it is the illness that brings this sort of behaviour; they can't help it.

All the best,

Thanks for answering. I love this website x
Solange 7th Nov 2013 Diversional Therapist
Hi Lee, I am not an expert, but think that if a person was a bona fide narcissist before the onset of dementia they wouldn't know how to carry on the trait after diagnosis. They may carry on for a while but the illness is relentless and sooner or later cognition and memory are impaired. The illness is known to affect people in different ways; some cope better than others. Every residential care facility has challenging residents. The only advice I can give you is to take a break if it is all too much. Don't feel guilty or embarrassed. It is better to take a break than lose patience with them. All the best!

Lee 6th Nov 2013 Live in caregiver
Your reasoning is based on the person having behavioral challenges as a result of the disease. You don't take into account the fact that the person may have been a bona fide, literal narcissist before the onset of dementia; and, their behavior is an extension of who they really are. What then?
heather 6th Nov 2013 DIVERSIONAL THERAPIST
Hi I am working wit a lady with dementia going through the stages. Memory really bad. How do I help her when she is adamant that personal belongings are not there....they actually have not been around for 30 odd years. It's a constant asking process an I do not know what to say or help her reason. these things have not been with her since year dot.
Solange 12th Oct 2012 Diversional Therapist
Hi Anne, Dementia and wandering behaviour is very common. The first thing I would recommend is to talk to health professionals in your facility, (nurse, doctor, and physiotherapist) for an assessment. Also make sure the environment is as safe as possible for your client to wander. Increasing exercises during the day may improve wandering in the afternoon and eliminating foods high in sugar and caffeine may help too. Remember that despite wandering being unsafe for people with dementia it also has some benefits such as promotion of circulation and oxygenation, exercise, and prevention of muscle rigidity. Talk to his family and try to find out what interests and hobbies were missed when the 'Resident Profile' was done and create an activity based on the result. Here are a couple of things you may try:
- Escort your client on a walk to burn energy three times a day
- Take client to a sensory room to wander, a multi-sensory experience may reduce restlessness
- See if he is interested in pruning shrubs, watering plants, taking a dog for a walk
Anne 5th Oct 2012 Activities Co-Ordinator
What would you suggest for a male person in his 80's who has dementia,is not ambulant.
He will not sit for any length of time in a chair or bed.
He keeps trying to get up and walk.
I have tried various distractions to no avail, he is not interested in any activity at all.
Every time this person tries to walk he falls over and injures himself.
Could you help me please.

regards Anne